Things I Did This Week While Also Nursing
Assembled a spaceship out of Lego bricks Assembled a vampire castle out of Lego bricks Tied (with one hand) the strings of a babydoll’s pajama pants Made peanut butter and jelly sandwiches Discussed...
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View ArticleTransitional Pants
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View ArticleThis, Too, Shall Pass: Pregnancy Mantras for Late August
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View ArticleWomen Shaming Women
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View ArticleWhat Makes a Good Breast Pump?
Many women with a good health insurance plan are able to purchase a double-electric breast pump through their insurance at no cost to them. This is fantastic!Except that many insurance plans are only...
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